Tim and I met on a night out of mutual friends and we all had way too much to drink. So how did all this start, if, as I say, I was straight. So yes, there you are, I am a gay man totally submissive to my boyfriend, especially, oh especially sexually. It's our only disagreement, and that only because he allows me to disagree with him. At least that's what I say, he says that it was obvious to him and others that I wasn't, that I was so obviously a closet case. I was a straight man when I first met my boyfriend.